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Wise words lead to wise decisions

"Watch your thoughts, they become your words Watch your words, they become your actions Watch your actions, they become your habits Watch your habits, they become your character Watch your character, it becomes your destiny. " By : Source Unknown {Sent using AppFlute Inspirational Quotes Android App.}

Peo-ple

The human race has one really effective weapon, and that is laughter. By : Mark Twain We meet people everyday. Some new to our circle and some old. Some of them are our friends,some acquintances and some are enemies. Those new people we meet, we reject or accept. Prejudice and discrimination are everywhere. Sometimes we are the real definition of discrimination. Discrimination can be fair or unfair but everyday we choose which kind of discriminator we want to be. I choose to be fair. But is my fair everyones kind of fair? Is it fair that I reject people who love to make fun of others? Is it fair that I cant stand drunk people being all up in my space? Is it fair that I only make friends with people I can stand? Is it fair that I love bad boys? Is it fair that I cant stand people who make it their lifes mission to look like "good people"? Its all fair to me because my life morals and beliefs depict that my decisions and discrimination be geared in such a way. ...

Learning something new everyday

"Hatred is a self-addressed envelope." By : Ahmed Rehab {Sent using AppFlute Inspirational Quotes Android App.}

Leave me alone

In my head Rage Hurt Murder In my heart Pain Loss Unrest On the tip of my tongue LEAVE ME ALONE

I need to...

You've got to follow your passion. You've got to figure out what it is you love - who you really are. And have the courage to do that. I believe that the only courage anybody ever needs is the courage to follow your own dreams. By : Oprah Winfrey Sent {using AppFlute Inspirational Quotes Android App.}

Vampire diaries season 4 episode 11

Saw my ex yesterday and my heart beat like crazy. Do i still have feelings for him? Hells no! Then i watched vampire diaries,and heard stefan say to Elena that the reason she thinks he has changed is because she doesnt know him when he is not in love with her. The exact same thing that happened between me and Sihle. I didnt know him when he stopped loving me. He became that guy he used to be before me and i wanted him to love me again. I need him to. For a long time i blamed myself and hated myself for all the hurt and pain i put him through. Then i realised that i let him,he stopped loving me but i forced myself on him. I know how unchristian it is of me but i still hate him. As long as there is no "Im sorry" from him then I think il need time to get over this myself. Il need time,patience and alot of prayer. I rushed into so many relationships after him and i kept trying to change the men i was with trying to stop from getting hurt. But all i needed was to give myse...

Watching Invictus

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Today I watched Invictus and as a black South African,I wasnt impressed at first. I started thinking to myself "Damn these Americans, why dont they tell their own stories?" Then I watched the movie and 30 min into the movie I listen to Matt Damon speaking and all I thought was WOW! This guy is AMAZEBALLZ! I didnt see this American guy trying to portray a South African, I saw a white afrikaans South African(Dont know if im saying that right). It made me understand the difference between using a South African actor and using a Hollywood actor. I doubt anyone would have been able to portray the role of Mandela or even Pienaar the way Matt and Morgan did. I think their acting gave the movie that star quality. South African film makers have alot to learn but I believe in the South African brand. So what if America has taken over? We dont have to copy anyone else when we are our brand. Our stories could never be the same as that of the americans. When they look at us they think ...

Why I blog

Emotions can be a deadly thing and sometimes they are the most wonderful thing in the world. When we are in love, we embrace them and welcome them like a breath of fresh air. Once things turn sour, we hate feeling things, we even go as far as to pretend we don't have them.  I am done pretending I don't feel. Heck my feelings are just as strong as the next person. The only difference is that, besides my mom, I really don't have anyone to go and have long chats with. I have actually discovered that people always say "talk to me, about anything. Just be honest and open, it's okay" or whatever people say to make you share your life, deepest thoughts, your secrets and your true feelings. But people don't really care about what you're thinking. You can make a comment about the weather, about politics or even what celebrities are doing but tell them exactly what is in your head and they break it down and your left feeling less of a person. Do I need a ...